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Career Change - Become a Truck Driver

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SuperDave71's Guide to Reconciliation

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So You Think Truck Driving Is Easy?

I know all of you, whether in the USA or not have seen truck drivers. They are what make the world go around. If it were not for a truck driver, driving all night and day then people would not have anything.

Has Cobra Electronics opened pandoras box?

With the development of the new radio that Cobra plans to display at MATS in March 2008. Is it going to be good for the trucking industry, or will it just be another way for “Big Brother” to stick his hand in the pockets of Truckers?

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SuperDave71's Guide to Reconciliation
Date Added: March 11, 2008 08:09:27 PM
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Category: Society: Relationships
**Author's Disclaimer** I am neither a therapist nor a professional counselor. The following advice is given in a take it or leave it format. The author (me) does not intend for the user (you) to agree 100% with the following but to merely listen with the intent to learn from the author's mistakes. My post will not give false hope to the user but will give the user a possible different way of dealing with their current situation. This guide was created for you. I do NOT hold the answers to your breakup/ separation nor can I take the place of a professional therapist. My theories about getting back together are my own and I do not take responsibility for you using them. The intent of this guide is to first and foremost get you back. Without getting yourself together, there will be no hope for reconciliation. Imagine yourself a staring role in a performance, yet did not memorize your lines and the curtain is opening for the first time. This guide was written with the best intent though you may not agree with its contents. Take may advice with a grain of salt and I wish you the best in no matter what or where life’s journey takes you. Thank you....and I wish you the best no matter what your situation. Let's begin... The Break The phone rings and you hear the famous “we need to talk”. You have a heated argument fuel by underlying resentment that has been building behind the scenes for some time. In an instant you hear “It’s Over!”. You find that your partner is “just not that into you.” We can all relate to the dreaded “I love you BUT I am just not IN love with you.” No matter how your breakup occurred or even if you were the one that broke it off, there is hope. There are many things in my opinion that you need to realize before you make rash decisions and make costly mistakes when trying to get back together. Let’s review some of them. Your Current Feelings I know that breaking up is difficult no matter what your role was. There was time invested as well as feelings involved that came naturally. Trust was given free by both parties and you possibly started building a subconscious future together. The closeness you felt with your partner cannot be paralleled. Many people have problems with too much self-pity when a breakup occurs. The rejected partner turns inward. The thoughts of “I am not good enough” or “I am not worthy of their love” can crush any hope of feeling better. The rejection can grow and take root if you let it. You ex was someone who validated you. Your opinions mattered. They listened with an attentive ear and gave you encouragement. They gave you exactly what you needed and you have never felt so alive. When a partner leaves, they take everything they once gave you with them. All you are left with are memories for the moment. When one get’s rejected, the inward feeling can be dark, lonely, cold, unknowing and depressing. Rejection if taken too personally can drop you to your knees and keep you there if you allow it to. I want you to understand that your feelings are yours. That burden is your own unless you want to help yourself. If you want to wallow in self-pity and try and convince yourself you will never be happy again, that is what your body and mind will react to. Depression is very common. The thought of ordinary tasks such as going to the grocery, shopping, work, walking the dog or simply eating can be so overwhelming that you would rather stay in bed or locked in your apartment or home. The world can seem less bright; less exciting. Your purpose for doing anything is now compromised. Being upset is understood and accepted. Staying that way and allowing negative feelings to take root in your head and heart will keep you there. How can you start to feel better when your partner has left or possibly moved on to another? The answer is a simple one but understanding it is a whole other ball game. You were an individual before you met your ex partner. You would smile, laugh, learn, get excited about going out, meeting friends and the list could go on and on. In the process of loving your partner, you allowed yourself to put your individual happiness in their hands. When they walked out the door, so did your happiness…or so it seems. If you are rejected or you let someone go, there were reasons for doing so. People do not just get up and leave for no reason. I want you to understand that it’s isn’t always your fault. Quit trying to be a martyr and trying to convince yourself that you have failed. How can you fail at being you? You can’t. You are unique. You are special. You are who God made you and that my friend is a miracle in itself. You have talents and abilities that make you who you are. There is no one just like you. Many believe that if their partner doesn’t come back that their life will never again be happy. You hear ...

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